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Thursday, August 10, 2006

Dear Indian Citizen,

This mail comes to you on behalf of around over 1100 “Legally Terrorised” families.

To know more about “LEGAL TERRORISM” please read :


Also, similar worry:

We are not advocates. This is a SELF HELP GROUP of families who are fighting false cases against themselves as well. We can educate you on the basis of our experience & knowledge. But let me tell you, some of our volunteers are FAR BETTER THAN THE LAWYERS (Greedy Advocates).

We are arranging a Seminar cum Meeting on 13th August(Venue: The Press club of India "Conference Hall" , Fort area, near VT station, Behind Times of India Building, Opposite to BMC(Municipality-Mahanagarpalika) building).

Mumbai SIF Group's Legal awareness seminar(coping with Misuse of Family laws): IPC 498a- The broad agenda of the Seminar + member Meeting:

1) Inviting Advocates: to offer advices and precautions to be taken in case of a False 498a or Dowry case, and legal angles for some individual cases which is of general interest.
2) Inviting Senior retired police officials and Judges: To share their experiences with 498a cases, answer some typical problems and counsel in general.
3)Journalists, we are confirming the participation of some media houses.
4) Structure will be broadly : (a) To address individual case issues and to provide an opportunity for them to interact with the Legal Intelligentsia and provide possible mentors/guides/counsels (b) to find volunteers to form and manage a registered NGO(non governmental organisation, like our members have already established in Maharashtra, Delhi and Bangalore(2 NGOs here)). For this NGO, we envisage strong women-victims' presence to effectively convey this movement as a "Justice Vs Injustice" issue rather than a "Man Vs Women" issue. (c) to Invite the 4th estate- the media and spread the awareness of the deadly Legal Terrorism to the common man and let also decide whether he wants to vote to someone who supports this Draconic and Malicious law.

Mumbai meet will held be on 13th Sunday August starting 3PM till 6PM. We, activists, will be available from 2PM at the venue for addressing any individual queries. Though main advices and counseling sessions will be kept on the days following the meet, when members can meet volunteers near their location any time mutually convenient- we need to get the meeting focused though we know that individual concerns are important too.

PLEASE NOTE : For more details you can call up +91 9224335577 (Gokul – & Jinesh - )

Also please read following to more about us.

And hon’ble High Court tells NOT TO ARREST MINORS or OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS and looked worried about this misuse, check at

Following are some quotes from media/judiciary about this misuse :-

Read Research Report on Misuse of 498a

To join us write to

To talk with us you can call up
All India Helpline Number: 91-09243473794 (24 Hours)
Volunteer Helpline Numbers (limited contact hours)

Delhi: Swarup : 9810611534, Sachit 9871734980, Ashish : 9911119113
Chandigarh: 9888562582
Bangalore: 80-55334135
Mumbai: 9224335577
Jaipur: 09352562456
Kolkata : 033-25347398

Sachit Dalal
+91-9871734980 (Limited Contact Hours)
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Disclamer : These are my personal views.Your views could be different.


Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...
How an NRI in fear of arrest due to misuse of 498A going to attend any meeting in India in first place? Will be like placing the head in the lion's mouth!!! So have such meetings in UK and USA also where people feel many victims are or give some sort of guarantee for NRI's return after the meeting to attend to his duties back in UK and USA. This matter is as bad as that and I am sorry to say this in 2006. With all due respect for India but NRI's life is also valuable. Thanx. UK guy.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...
NRI lost interest and respect for the place when recently got into this trap. Previously was visiting India regularly and also contrubuted at places of need. Totally innocent but now even scared to place information here with name and address.....simply because you never know what can happen. My life is valued by me and dont want it ruined by some thugs when such law exists in India. Can we please have more Gandhis from the politicians of India? Gandhi opened this employment.....that is Official Indian Politics. So let us give something in return to HIM please. UK Guy.

Sat Nov 04, 02:20:55 AM 2006

Anonymous said...


There are 3.22 Million Indians in America

38% of Doctors in America are Indians.

12% of Scientists in America are Indians.

36% of NASA employees are Indians.

34% of MICROSOFT employees are Indians

28% of IBM employees are Indians

17% of INTEL employees are Indians

13% of XEROX employees are Indians

23% of Indian Community in America is having Green-Card'

Above information from an email

So why they went to USA in the first place?
Why so many more still want to go to USA and UK in 2006?

Sat Nov 04, 02:21:34 AM 2006

Anonymous said...
Why they left India?..... Because many of them might be children of the leaders and the rich in India and prefer to live in the west.

Sat Nov 04, 02:21:56 AM 2006

Anonymous said...
Reading all this about the misuse of law and in particular misuse of 498A, I have a suggestion for NRI. Go to India for a holiday. Like now, don’t get involved with politics and business there in India. By now after many years abroad, you have got this title of being a NRI. Most likely you are born abroad. So be a NRI. They used to say when you marry a lady, the 2 families also get married. The problems get sorted out by the 2 families. But remember now…..REMEMBER…..NRI guy not only marries an Indian lady from India but also marries the India police, who are the first ones to arrest you before you are found guilty. Why we blame the law? The law is there. The people who put the law in place are the ones to take the responsibility. So why marry a lady from India in the first place? There are plenty of Indian ladies abroad also where you now live. The Indian lady from India will find it difficult to adjust to the life abroad… particular UK and then will blame you and they have the additional police force in India who they can rely on to lock you up next time you are in India or can call you to India by arresting your family member in India, if you have any there. Why marry one and try to see if she adjusts to the life in UK. Why take this risk as she has the Indian police on her side to even ruin your future visits to India. Be safe where you belong and serve that country. You are a NRI and be a NRI. Yes, visit India, see the place, enjoy the Darshans at religious places, enjoy the food and get out after that, back to where you belong. Sorry India this is happening now after personal experience. I am giving my points only about this one problem in India. It is up to others and India herself to address other issues. UK guy.

Sat Nov 04, 02:22:40 AM 2006

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...


Dear Friends,

I am please to blog this on behalf of this 17 Yr Old College going Girl, She Writes

I being a 21st Century Girl doesn’t believe that India is a male dominated country because now-a-days abla’s are sabla’s I mean to say that today’s generation women always want to get something which is new branded and which also has a status symbol that too sitting at home without earning anything. This whole pressure comes on the poor husband who has to listen to his parents, to his in-law, to his boss to his children’s demand too. Irrespective of his demand he has to fulfill his family demand first.

If demand is not fulfilled by him then he has to listen to his wife’s taunts, his children’s frustration to face other problems too. Husbands also have only one person to whom they can talk i.e. to their wife, But dominating nature of wives make them more angry and violent due to which male remove their frustration in form of anger and violence. After that, the spouse or man’s better half do the propaganda of their so called plight without thinking about their husband’s mental status. Thus, adding fuel to fire. They do this with their sure shot and powerful weapon i.e. Tears. Some wives are so great that they directly go to the cops without thinking once about the consequences on their husbands and his family members, Due to which males like (Ram) have to suffer a lot.

This thought of mine can be explained with my personally witnessed experience some days back in my friend’s case. She was genuinely eve teased by some notorious guys in her neighborhood. Her father came to know about this incidence and he called the cops. The guys were taken to question by the police. But to my surprise the police did not even question us at all!!! They took us on face value and the guys were bashed royally by police. And we were not even questioned at all. I could sense the loop hole that I hear many elder married guys stuck in divorce who talks about it, like the one in my neighborhood. Before which I had no whiff about the whole thing.

I asked the police if we could leave and he understood my gesture on face. And he said to us that “You are like our daughters and we have now to be extra cautious about our image too, especially after the rape cases”

And that is where after the NC was lodged I could make out that men are really really vulnerable and women is actually dominating men using men (police) and law to the maximum of their advantage.

No doubt my friends’ grievance was genuine but the statement of the police and the treatment given to the accused at the face value of the whole matter made my conscience prick me to the extent of telling me that thank god I do not have a brother else he could have been victimized and would have been equally vulnerable to this attitude of the police.

“That keeps me pondering on the question that “Is India Really a Male Dominated Country???”

Sneha Kala.
XII Commerce, C-11.
Thakur College

5:51 PM

Anonymous said...

They used to say when you marry a lady, the 2 families also get married. The problems get sorted out by the 2 families. But remember now…..REMEMBER…..NRI guy and and others dont only marry an Indian lady from India but also marries the Indian police, who are the first ones to arrest you before you are found guilty. Why we blame the law? The law is there. The people who put the law in place are the ones to take the responsibility. So why marry an lady from India in the first place

Anonymous said...

Arre...yahin to dhokha kha gaya India..