First Contact Advice

This is my routine first reply for all new mebers who contact me with queries, the readers of this blog also could benefit by this
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First and foremost, please attend the weekly counseling meetings at Mulund(or Borivli), if you are around Mumbai. We conduct these meetings on every Saturday, 4 to 8pm at Deshmukh Garden, Mahatma Phule Road, Mulund(east), very near station. Please call 9869323538 to confirm or if in doubt. For confirming the Borivli based meeting details call Jinesh on 9820241589 .

It is very important to attend meetings/talk to fellow victims-turned-victors, etc., since it will give peace of mind more than anything in the first meeting itself. Everyone comes to meetings feeling very unlucky/cursed since they think they are the only ones having these troubles, but when u meet others in the same boat, not only u will resolve the "why me" question in your own minds, but also get a definite and positive direction on which you can work and solve your problems

There is so much collective knowledge to be tapped, in terms of working of courts, how cases proceed, what to keep in mind when dealing with advocates, and hundreds of other aspects of how to stay peaceful and still solve your problems - these inputs u wont get on any site or book, that’s a guarantee- meetings transform the people who have the will to transform.

I would recommend that you join SIF(saveindianfamily) yahoo group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/saveindianfamily , where you can post your specific queries and can expect to get replies from the 4000 odd members in this group, who are highly passionate about fighting this kind of misuse of law and are knowledgeable than even an average advocate. The message archives of SIF yahoo group also will be helpful in getting more insight to any kind of legal situation that you may be in(you can search with Keywords related to your case).

All the major judgements/citations that you may need is here: http://mynation.net/docs and http://www.498a.org/forum/viewforum.php?f=16&sid=1592eb0eed276fe804822de5daf4db2a . Refer http://ipc498a.wordpress.com/2007/07/01/the-498a-survival-kit/ to read about how you can fight misuse of 498a.

See the attachment for some links and resources which will help you to research solutions yourselves. Also call the helpline numbers near to you( given below) and meet the local group at their weekly meetings.

In the meanwhile go through some blog posts I had written about counter cases and using the Joginder Kumar Vs State of UP judgement for getting a fair investigation done in your case. See: http://at498a.blogspot.com/2008/05/impending-498a-send-this.html , http://bok498a.blogspot.com/2008/07/post-498a-getting-fair-investigation.html , http://bok498a.blogspot.com/2008/07/counter-cases-during-and-after-case.html and http://bok498a.blogspot.com/2008/06/first-strikers-advantage-live-saving.html

For Free Advise, Call our help-lines worldwide

Help-Line Numbers.

Mumbai: 9869323538, 9821414336, 9224335577, 9820056091 Nagpur: 9890974788

Nasik: 9371988132, 9822011250, 9890656219 Pune: 9923056460, 9922379103, 9850883751

Delhi: 9911119113, 9891369616, 9811624141 Calcutta: 9231835462, 9830151555, 9830927619

Kanpur: 9839038424, 9335014984,9935239764 Bangalore: 80-65334135, 9845986250

Jaipur 9352562456 Kerala 9895557765, 9995433034, 9995308518 Gujarat 9825365816, 9898989884 U.S.A +650-430-9544, +612-812-4340, +917- 512-5362 Kuwait +965-3869295

More helplines at: http://mynation.net/contact-us & http://www.savefamily.org/index.php?Itemid=65&option=com_content

In return we just need you to raise your voice in whatever way possible so that we can together see the end of this legal terrorism in families, which is the real strength of India(and may be that’s why families are being systematically targeted and broken down by vested interests!)

Warm Regards,

Gokul, http://gokul.go.to
Editor - www.siftimes.com , www.protectindianfamily.org
Protect Indian Family: "For Family Harmony.. Against Legal Terrorism"
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Cowardice asks...."Is it safe?", Expedience asks "Is it politic?", Vanity asks...."Is it popular?"... There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, politic, nor popular, but one must take it because it is right: Martin Luther King, Jr.